Comments for SkidVis.com http://www.skidvis.com The yadda yadda of Skid Vis Sat, 11 Feb 2012 20:56:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Why guys look at porn by StevoM http://www.skidvis.com/2007/05/why-guys-look-at-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-288 StevoM Sat, 11 Feb 2012 20:56:21 +0000 http://www.skidvis.com/?p=103#comment-288 In my case, being a 39 year old heterosexual male who has never had a female partner, and who cannot find one is hard and demoralizing. I consciously know that I shouldn't look porn and that by doing so makes me unworthy of a relationship, but at times the loneliness is too much to bare. Besides, it's my way of distracting myself from these feelings at least for a little while. Can I break the cycle, or will the cycle break me?; I don't know, only time will tell. In my case, being a 39 year old heterosexual male who has never had a female partner, and who cannot find one is hard and demoralizing. I consciously know that I shouldn’t look porn and that by doing so makes me unworthy of a relationship, but at times the loneliness is too much to bare. Besides, it’s my way of distracting myself from these feelings at least for a little while. Can I break the cycle, or will the cycle break me?; I don’t know, only time will tell.

]]> Comment on Why guys look at porn by Anonymous http://www.skidvis.com/2007/05/why-guys-look-at-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-286 Anonymous Wed, 16 Nov 2011 16:15:00 +0000 http://www.skidvis.com/?p=103#comment-286 What alot of people don't realize there are a lot of human trafficing going on.  And if they do know that they are pretending its not real.  Well it is real.  Alot of boys and girls are made to produce these images by their captures.  And someone at my age thinks...dang...my husband is enjoying pictures of women his daughters age.  Now to me that is SICK...real close to pedifile when it comes to looking a women either of age or not of age.  Who is to know?  The men enjoy it.....that's the bottom line.  And if they think it does not effect their marriage, they are WRONG.  What woman out there want is to feel she is the ONLY ONE her husband wants to see.  It hurts, it really hurts. What alot of people don’t realize there are a lot of human trafficing going on.  And if they do know that they are pretending its not real.  Well it is real.  Alot of boys and girls are made to produce these images by their captures.  And someone at my age thinks…dang…my husband is enjoying pictures of women his daughters age.  Now to me that is SICK…real close to pedifile when it comes to looking a women either of age or not of age.  Who is to know?  The men enjoy it…..that’s the bottom line.  And if they think it does not effect their marriage, they are WRONG.  What woman out there want is to feel she is the ONLY ONE her husband wants to see.  It hurts, it really hurts.

]]> Comment on Why guys look at porn by Anonymous http://www.skidvis.com/2007/05/why-guys-look-at-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-285 Anonymous Wed, 16 Nov 2011 16:02:00 +0000 http://www.skidvis.com/?p=103#comment-285 I have dealt with this type of pornography for over 35yrs. I have a good husband but his need to see this stuff on his cell phone hurts me to the core. Everything always gets turned around in the discussion of it, and I end up allowing myself to feel at fault. I give him what he wants, and yes for the most part I have learned men are all about their needs. I have had great sex with him, but I could not begin to count how many times I have had sex with him and never been kissed. I do feel poronography is cheating. At that moment and at that time they are looking at it, they are enjoying what they see. I can not compete with any of them. And never will. I work hard, 2 jobs, we raised children together who have long since grown and gone and now since we are older this area has made my end less satisfying. Ok...I say were older I understand, then I look at his phone and see what he likes to see and my heart is crushed. No one can tell me he does not prefer what he sees to what he sees in his wife. Are we just a "live" form of release? It hurts to the core. What ever happened in this world to make the simple statement of "What is right is right and what is wrong is wrong?" Do I ever think this will change, probably not. He has said to me, you will probably go to your grave never realizing just how much I love you. Sad to say, but he is probably right. I have dealt with this type of pornography for over 35yrs. I have a good husband but his need to see this stuff on his cell phone hurts me to the core. Everything always gets turned around in the discussion of it, and I end up allowing myself to feel at fault. I give him what he wants, and yes for the most part I have learned men are all about their needs. I have had great sex with him, but I could not begin to count how many times I have had sex with him and never been kissed. I do feel poronography is cheating. At that moment and at that time they are looking at it, they are enjoying what they see. I can not compete with any of them. And never will. I work hard, 2 jobs, we raised children together who have long since grown and gone and now since we are older this area has made my end less satisfying. Ok…I say were older I understand, then I look at his phone and see what he likes to see and my heart is crushed. No one can tell me he does not prefer what he sees to what he sees in his wife. Are we just a “live” form of release? It hurts to the core.

What ever happened in this world to make the simple statement of “What is right is right and what is wrong is wrong?”

Do I ever think this will change, probably not. He has said to me, you will probably go to your grave never realizing just how much I love you. Sad to say, but he is probably right.

]]> Comment on Why guys look at porn by Anonymous http://www.skidvis.com/2007/05/why-guys-look-at-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-284 Anonymous Wed, 16 Nov 2011 15:49:00 +0000 http://www.skidvis.com/?p=103#comment-284 I have dealt with this type of pornography for over 35yrs.  I have a good husband but his need to see this stuff on his cell phone hurts me to the core.  Everything always gets turned around in the discussion of it, and I end up allowing myself to feel at fault.  I give him what he wants, and yes for the most part I have learned men are all about their needs.  I have had great sex with him, but I could not begin to count how many times I have had sex with him and never been kissed.  I do feel poronography is cheating.  At that moment and at that time they are looking at it, they are enjoying what they see.  I can not compete with any of them.  And never will.  I work hard, 2 jobs, we raised children together who have long since grown and gone and now since we are older this area has made my end less satisfying.    Ok...I say were older I understand, then I look at his phone and see what he likes to see and my heart is crushed.  No one can tell me he does not prefer what he sees to what he sees in his wife.  Are we just a "live" form of release?  It hurts to the core.  What ever happened in this world to make the simple statement of "What is right is right and what is wrong is wrong?"  Do I ever think this will change, probably not.  He has said to me, you will probably go to your grave never realizing just how much I love you.  Sad to say, but he is probably right. I have dealt with this type of pornography for over 35yrs.  I have a good husband but his need to see this stuff on his cell phone hurts me to the core.  Everything always gets turned around in the discussion of it, and I end up allowing myself to feel at fault.  I give him what he wants, and yes for the most part I have learned men are all about their needs.  I have had great sex with him, but I could not begin to count how many times I have had sex with him and never been kissed.  I do feel poronography is cheating.  At that moment and at that time they are looking at it, they are enjoying what they see.  I can not compete with any of them.  And never will.  I work hard, 2 jobs, we raised children together who have long since grown and gone and now since we are older this area has made my end less satisfying.    Ok…I say were older I understand, then I look at his phone and see what he likes to see and my heart is crushed.  No one can tell me he does not prefer what he sees to what he sees in his wife.  Are we just a “live” form of release?  It hurts to the core. 

What ever happened in this world to make the simple statement of “What is right is right and what is wrong is wrong?” 

Do I ever think this will change, probably not.  He has said to me, you will probably go to your grave never realizing just how much I love you.  Sad to say, but he is probably right.

]]> Comment on Why guys look at porn by Anonymous http://www.skidvis.com/2007/05/why-guys-look-at-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-283 Anonymous Tue, 15 Nov 2011 14:34:00 +0000 http://www.skidvis.com/?p=103#comment-283 I literally want to punch the MAN who wrote this article in the dick, seriously.......did you really just compare watching porn to watching sports....WTF !?!?!?!?! It is NOT normal, do I know my hubby spanks it, yes, Im 100% ok with this(in moderation, which he does), do we have great sex, yes....but when men just look at ump-teen sites just to "look" at them with no intention of getting off, I DO have a problem with that....its weird and very much OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR, which is never good!!! AND, to say we(women) either accept it or "embrace" it ??????  Have you lost your fu**ing mind dude......the next time you have sex with a "woman" (I put that in quotes because any "female" that had sex with YOU is not a woman, she is just crazy) How about she staples a cut out of a much sexier and hotter man to your face....how would that feel (both literally AND emotionally) ps....Your a douchebag :) I literally want to punch the MAN who wrote this article in the dick, seriously…….did you really just compare watching porn to watching sports….WTF !?!?!?!?!
It is NOT normal, do I know my hubby spanks it, yes, Im 100% ok with this(in moderation, which he does), do we have great sex, yes….but when men just look at ump-teen sites just to “look” at them with no intention of getting off, I DO have a problem with that….its weird and very much OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR, which is never good!!!
AND, to say we(women) either accept it or “embrace” it ??????  Have you lost your fu**ing mind dude……the next time you have sex with a “woman” (I put that in quotes because any “female” that had sex with YOU is not a woman, she is just crazy)
How about she staples a cut out of a much sexier and hotter man to your face….how would that feel (both literally AND emotionally)
ps….Your a douchebag :)

]]> Comment on Why guys look at porn by Maika K http://www.skidvis.com/2007/05/why-guys-look-at-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-282 Maika K Mon, 08 Aug 2011 02:30:00 +0000 http://www.skidvis.com/?p=103#comment-282 I have found out recently that my husband is looking at porn.  I was very hurt and I am ready to leave.  It is funny how a man can defend his actions so vehemtly without the consideration of how it will and does effect marriage and relationship.  I know pornography is wrong , it places a view upon women soley as a sexual tool used for mens gratification.  Can you men not realize that sexuality has been so desentized that you have been able to use your own sexual urges as an excuse to violate your wives, and girlfriends emotionally. You breach  the trust that needs to be present in a healthy relationship.  Then you use that same sad ass excuse that everyone does it and that men are just wired that way.  BULLSHIT!!!!   It is a selfish act that destroys the women that love you.  Remember that when you are looking at that crap,  it's not real,  it is all a lie and those women are people too,  who without the make up , lighting and fake boobs are everyday people who are probably in that postion because  they are hurting and lost.  And maybe some selfish jackass used them , or molested them all because they wanted sexual gratification just like you!!!!!!!   I have found out recently that my husband is looking at porn.  I was very hurt and I am ready to leave.  It is funny how a man can defend his actions so vehemtly without the consideration of how it will and does effect marriage and relationship.  I know pornography is wrong , it places a view upon women soley as a sexual tool used for mens gratification.  Can you men not realize that sexuality has been so desentized that you have been able to use your own sexual urges as an excuse to violate your wives, and girlfriends emotionally. You breach  the trust that needs to be present in a healthy relationship.  Then you use that same sad ass excuse that everyone does it and that men are just wired that way.  BULLSHIT!!!!   It is a selfish act that destroys the women that love you.  Remember that when you are looking at that crap,  it’s not real,  it is all a lie and those women are people too,  who without the make up , lighting and fake boobs are everyday people who are probably in that postion because  they are hurting and lost.  And maybe some selfish jackass used them , or molested them all because they wanted sexual gratification just like you!!!!!!!  

]]> Comment on Why guys look at porn by Anonymous http://www.skidvis.com/2007/05/why-guys-look-at-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-281 Anonymous Mon, 18 Jul 2011 00:24:00 +0000 http://www.skidvis.com/?p=103#comment-281 <p>say what you men want... believe what you want... but if the tables were turned your ego would totally be smashed if women needed porn like men think they need it to cope... give me a break.. like a sports event... so typical.. it seems you are only wanting to justify to us women why you think it is acceptable. to look at a woman to lust over her is the same as having an affair. I hope one day women will value there bodies more and leave men hanging out to dry.. sad for women who  feel they dont have enough respect for themselves to keep in undercover as they say.. moral decay is the worse in all history books.. I really thought I was going to get a real honest opinion on a weaknesses or a disablity or mental issue that men may have.. Its called controlling ones actions. We as women are suppose to just accept it.. NOT. I know my comment wont get the top vote but in the world I dont exspect much...oh yes.. and there are more men who are not interested in pleasing there women  because with porn you dont have to worry about anyone else but yourself.. Get it.. YOurself... narcasistic... dont you think..</p> say what you men want… believe what you want… but if the tables were turned your ego would totally be smashed if women needed porn like men think they need it to cope… give me a break..
like a sports event… so typical.. it seems you are only wanting to justify to us women why you think it is acceptable. to look at a woman to lust over her is the same as having an affair. I hope one day women will value there bodies more and leave men hanging out to dry.. sad for women who  feel they dont have enough respect for themselves to keep in undercover as they say.. moral decay is the worse in all history books.. I really thought I was going to get a real honest opinion on a weaknesses or a disablity or mental issue that men may have.. Its called controlling ones actions.
We as women are suppose to just accept it.. NOT. I know my comment wont get the top vote but in the world I dont exspect much…oh yes.. and there are more men who are not interested in pleasing there women  because with porn you dont have to worry about anyone else but yourself.. Get it..
YOurself… narcasistic… dont you think..

]]> Comment on Why guys look at porn by Annie Mossey http://www.skidvis.com/2007/05/why-guys-look-at-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-280 Annie Mossey Fri, 24 Jun 2011 07:28:00 +0000 http://www.skidvis.com/?p=103#comment-280 <p>Hmm. I think you just helped me to prove my point: First, you defend men saying (in a nutshell) that it's just what men do, then you confess that you don't want to look at porn because you don't want to further hurt your girlfriend with it.</p> <p>As a close guy friend of mine said to me once: "It's natural for guys to no this, but alas, it doesn't make it right considering how much DAMAGE they can do to a woman's self esteem and to a relationship."</p> <p>Since you, Gregory, don't want to hurt your woman, and are trying to not look at porn anymore, I have a lot of respect for you. Most other guys would selfishly continue to do what HURTS their woman on such a deep, personal level. I also <em>commend</em> you for trying. It shows you really do love her.  :-) </p> <p>Perhaps in time she will see that you truly love her and are committed to her, and she will be more understanding of you, and WANT to have sex with you without worrying about anything, and all will be truly great between you.</p> <p>Good luck.  :-)</p> <p> </p> Hmm. I think you just helped me to prove my point: First, you defend men saying (in a nutshell) that it’s just what men do, then you confess that you don’t want to look at porn because you don’t want to further hurt your girlfriend with it.

As a close guy friend of mine said to me once: “It’s natural for guys to no this, but alas, it doesn’t make it right considering how much DAMAGE they can do to a woman’s self esteem and to a relationship.”

Since you, Gregory, don’t want to hurt your woman, and are trying to not look at porn anymore, I have a lot of respect for you. Most other guys would selfishly continue to do what HURTS their woman on such a deep, personal level. I also commend you for trying. It shows you really do love her.  :-)  

Perhaps in time she will see that you truly love her and are committed to her, and she will be more understanding of you, and WANT to have sex with you without worrying about anything, and all will be truly great between you.

Good luck.  :-)

 

]]> Comment on Why guys look at porn by Gregory http://www.skidvis.com/2007/05/why-guys-look-at-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-279 Gregory Fri, 24 Jun 2011 01:59:00 +0000 http://www.skidvis.com/?p=103#comment-279 <p>annie your not going to find that Rare Gem unless its a MONK....if your a man or boy in AMERICA...sex is everywhere in commericals about fragrances...in eating a hamburger (hardees)....if you try and search for that man...then you'll be single for the rest of your life...you'll never understand just like we'll never understand you all...Even my gay neighbor has confessed to watching gay porn...i'm sorry annie but thats life....I used to be addicted to looking but i've got control on it now...its kinda like when i was younger there was a few girls i didn't want to get to know i just wanted sex from them and everytime after the fire works...i regreted what I had done...not because they were unattractive but because I only looked at them and thought sex...i appologize for being selfish...and i'm past it... I don't know where I'm going with this....but I love my girlfriend and want to marry her and at first she was ok with porn but now she's upset...the funny thing is the last two times I masterbated to porn (many weeks apart) she has walked in on me and it turned into huge fights....this morning she said do you want to do it and i said yeah...then she said well were not going to because you didn't want to last time....but after the fight she said she only wanted me to beg for it.... I'll never understand the way she thinks.... but what i can say is that I love her too much to lose her so i don't wnat to look at porn anymore...but i'm proud because i used to look at porn pretty much everyday...and now i havn't in a long time except for today when i got busted...she's at work feeling real insecure....i fucked up....but I couldn't talk my way out because...we think differently and we'll never be on the same level unless your gay...or dating a tranny</p> annie your not going to find that Rare Gem unless its a MONK….if your a man or boy in AMERICA…sex is everywhere in commericals about fragrances…in eating a hamburger (hardees)….if you try and search for that man…then you’ll be single for the rest of your life…you’ll never understand just like we’ll never understand you all…Even my gay neighbor has confessed to watching gay porn…i’m sorry annie but thats life….I used to be addicted to looking but i’ve got control on it now…its kinda like when i was younger there was a few girls i didn’t want to get to know i just wanted sex from them and everytime after the fire works…i regreted what I had done…not because they were unattractive but because I only looked at them and thought sex…i appologize for being selfish…and i’m past it… I don’t know where I’m going with this….but I love my girlfriend and want to marry her and at first she was ok with porn but now she’s upset…the funny thing is the last two times I masterbated to porn (many weeks apart) she has walked in on me and it turned into huge fights….this morning she said do you want to do it and i said yeah…then she said well were not going to because you didn’t want to last time….but after the fight she said she only wanted me to beg for it…. I’ll never understand the way she thinks…. but what i can say is that I love her too much to lose her so i don’t wnat to look at porn anymore…but i’m proud because i used to look at porn pretty much everyday…and now i havn’t in a long time except for today when i got busted…she’s at work feeling real insecure….i fucked up….but I couldn’t talk my way out because…we think differently and we’ll never be on the same level unless your gay…or dating a tranny

]]> Comment on Why guys look at porn by Anonymous http://www.skidvis.com/2007/05/why-guys-look-at-porn/comment-page-1/#comment-278 Anonymous Sat, 21 May 2011 11:56:00 +0000 http://www.skidvis.com/?p=103#comment-278 I know a married guy who not only frequents porn sites but archives porn images on the computer.  I think he has about 5000+ photos of explicit photos of female body parts stored.  is that sick? I know a married guy who not only frequents porn sites but archives porn images on the computer.  I think he has about 5000+ photos of explicit photos of female body parts stored.  is that sick?

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